Getting over a lost love or a failed marriage is a difficult thing to do. The truth is that there is no easy way to do it. You have to go through the process of hurting a lot before you could move forward. You know exactly what to do, but the thought of letting go is just too hard to manage. This is why you need more time to deal with your broken heart before falling in love again.

However, when you least expect it, you could be falling for someone again. This person gives you many reasons to be happy to the point that you want to marry him again. At this point, you are probably confused with what to do next especially if the divorce is still fresh. The proper question to ask now is: How can you know if the time is right for remarriage? Here is the checklist you need to know:

You Have Fully Moved On

This is the first thing that you need to take into consideration before entering into a serious relationship. It is essential that you have finally lost all your feelings for your ex-husband. Do not use your new lover as a rebound because this will only end up badly. Instead, take this chance or opportunity to learn how to love again and be one with the person who deserves to have you for eternity.

You No Long Hate Your Ex

After a failed marriage, you will start hating your former husband. The tendency is that you will shut him out of your life. While you may think this is a good sign of moving on, the reality is that you are still not over him. The more hate you have in your heart, the higher the chance that you are still in love with him. The moment you stop hating the other person is the time that you can finally say that, indeed, you have succeeded in moving past the failed relationship.

You Are In Love

Marriage is a serious commitment that you will be making with the other person. As such, it is essential to think twice before getting married again. Assess your feelings for the other person so that you can determine if you are madly in love with him. Your new lover deserves all of you, which is why you have to make sure that you love him with all your heart. Otherwise, marrying him is the wrong thing to do. If you can imagine spending the rest of your life with your new lover, then that is a good sign or indication that you are ready for the marriage.

The decision on remarrying is a serious one since it is a life-changing event. Take your time in deciding whether or not it is time to fall in love again. Give yourself a chance to breathe after the divorce. Be mature enough to balance the pros and cons of getting married for the second time. Think of your kids’ future as well as your own.