Don’t Settle For The Mediocre Life



People say life is full of ironies. School system preaches following the rules and regulations but entrepreneurs, business tycoons, and media influencers are encouraging people to think outside the box and disrupt the status quo. Media is both promulgating real beauty and perfect beauty. Some advertisement campaigns would celebrate facial quirkiness and uniqueness: wrinkles, freckles, tooth gaps, etc. but others would show flawless, porcelain and poreless skin. Religion teaches us the money is not something to chase and seek but people find security in their possession and amount of money in their bank account. They say that the only constant thing in life is change but in the course of the pursuit of happiness, happiness is associated with contentment.

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Facing Sadness To Prevent Depression

Depression as a mental disorder gets a lot of attention and media mileage nowadays. It can be due to various factors. Some due to a traumatic experience causing grief as discussed by Some believe that more than ever, people are finally naming and facing their problems –depression- and speaking out about their struggles and trials in dealing with the symptoms as well as possible treatment modalities. Also, a good number of artists – actors, singers, and authors – are experiencing depression; thus, the extensive discussion of the breakdown of so and so.  However, sadness and depression are two different things.

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Self-Awareness: The First Step Towards Success




In school, people learn about math, science and technology and languages. We master these subjects because frequently, we were told to excel in these fields to succeed in our career path in the future. Because of the traditional view of success and academics, the present curriculum is neglecting essential aspects that should be integrated and not only taught in a particular subject but instead practice and promoted in school as well in the family and the community. At times, people are perfecting their skills in different expertise and pursuits that they fail to become experts in understanding themselves and their relationship with people around them. Experts recommend achieving a right amount of self-awareness to make success not only in your career but in different pursuits you have in life.  We have encountered the term, “self-awareness” from time to time, maybe through our books or psychology articles but fail to grasp the definition and various ways to embody the word.

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Simple Ways To Be Happy




In younger days, children dream randomly and varyingly. One day, you want to be a pop star. The next day, you desire to follow the footsteps of famous authors or maybe, be an influential leader someday. As we go through life and all its trappings, we realize that at the end of the day; the most important thing is you are contented and happy. Yes, it would be pretty amazing to live the life of the rich and the famous but would these fascinations be sustainable enough to bring pure joy in our lives. Everybody is in the course of the pursuit of happiness. Happiness is subjective. The definition is based on the preference and the gauge of individuals. However, many research on the subject identified specific facts to attain happiness.

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